- make a game where someone tells me that it changed their life for the better: check
Well ain't that sweet.

Me stealing most of your list:
-Start making a game- Programming?! What the hell is programming?!!!
- make a game that someone makes fan art of: not yet
- make a game that someone makes erotic fan art of: not yet
- make a game that someone makes a fan site of: not yet
- make a game that someone makes a custom level of: not yet
- make a game that someone makes a mod of: not yet
- make a game that someone makes a movie of: not yet
- make a game that someone makes an ocremix of the music of: not yet
- make a game that someone does a youtube let's play of: not yet
- make a game that someone writes fan fiction of: not yet
- make a game that someone makes a fan game of: not yet
- make a game where someone tells me that it changed their life for the better: not yet
- remain completely anonymous: Well not completely. I might leave my name on some of my games.

- never get recognized in real life by random people i come across who are fans of my games: not yet
- make a dungeon crawler: nope
- make a tower defense game: At least I think it'll count as one.
- make a rpg: not yet; not sure if I'll ever go through with making my ideal turn based RPG. As far as subgenres go...
- make a platformer: Make a half a million of them to be specific
- make a zelda-style game: Can't wait.
- make a shmup: Genre I'll be spending the 2nd most amount of time on.
- make a strategy game: Tactical RPG to be precise.
- make a living through indie games: not yet, but getting closer to it
- have my games translated into other languages: not yet
- make a game that wins some type of award: not yet
- make a 4 player online beat em up: not yet
- make a 4 player online shoot em up- not
- make a metroidvania- not yet