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« Reply #1515 on: April 30, 2012, 09:28:15 AM » |
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My friend whose sister died two days ago's girlfriend just dumped him. She knew about the death, too. Accepting proxy hugs.
Shit man, many many hugs to you. -- I'm in a terrible mood right now. My boyfriend is now sub par with communication and that has had me ticked (I sent him an email expressing my concern) and then my mood began to spiral down and I tried to contact my friends that were online and guess what, they ALL ignored me. I also noticed that one of my friends who was supposed to be doing some editing for me has given up on that and decided to marathon tv shows. I'm starting to believe my friend who says, "the only person you can trust is yourself." Going to bed early hoping that tomorrow will bring something pleasant. I know I should really be talking to my friends about something like this, but like I said, they're busy ignoring me for some reason. I hate when people say they don't have anyone to talk to because it makes me wish I could just be that persons good friend who will listen to them, talk with them, and support them. I wish I had unlimited people I could do that for because I love it so much. turbo hugs
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« Reply #1516 on: April 30, 2012, 10:25:50 AM » |
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Thanks! I do feel like this is a good place for sympathies because they always make me feel better and make come with some nice advice attached. TIGrs are amazing people. I love you all.
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« Reply #1517 on: April 30, 2012, 10:30:20 AM » |
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Thanks! I do feel like this is a good place for sympathies because they always make me feel better and make come with some nice advice attached. TIGrs are amazing people. I love you all.
No thank you for being a wonderful part of everyone day. Stop before you become my favorite here.
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« Reply #1518 on: May 04, 2012, 10:15:31 PM » |
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That feeling when you have a melancholy day, but have no friends offline or online to talk to. Bleh.
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« Reply #1519 on: May 04, 2012, 10:28:31 PM » |
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That feeling when you have a melancholy day, but have no friends offline or online to talk to. Bleh.
This happens to me frequently enough. Mainly because I tend to stay up until 3 AM most nights due to "insomnia", and everyone is gone. Sometimes I'll just go on Omegle and talk with people there just to fill the void..
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« Reply #1520 on: May 04, 2012, 10:43:09 PM » |
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That feeling when you have a melancholy day, but have no friends offline or online to talk to. Bleh.
Maybe if you hadn't deleted me on MSN... Also, try being in an underpopulated timezone. Early evening and everyone's pretty much disappeared.
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« Reply #1521 on: May 04, 2012, 11:32:35 PM » |
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@Castle: Yeah, the weird thing is most of my friends who are internet buddies are like me and up through the night. It's just lately they haven't been on as much for whatever reason.
@Ashkin: Nah, I stand by my decision about removing you from my contacts. I was fed up with your sarcastic responses and stonewalling when I was legitimately trying to give you criticisms on various things (SubTerrane being the tipping point). Sarcasm is fine, I mean, you know me, I do it a lot myself, but keep it in moderation.
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« Reply #1522 on: May 04, 2012, 11:47:02 PM » |
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@Ashkin: Nah, I stand by my decision about removing you from my contacts. I was fed up with your sarcastic responses and stonewalling when I was legitimately trying to give you criticisms on various things (SubTerrane being the tipping point). Sarcasm is fine, I mean, you know me, I do it a lot myself, but keep it in moderation.
bby give me another chance ;n; I'm always afraid to accept everyone someone says without reviewing it first, I couldn't just use everything you said...
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« Reply #1523 on: May 10, 2012, 07:48:40 PM » |
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So I accidentally told one of my friends that I was interested in his ex while drunk and now my friend is acting all weird and wont talk to me properly while the girl in question is using me as an agony aunt for her own dysfunctional quasi-relationship with some guy she lives with who is a bit of a knob and I am starting to feel depressive again and
also I am shaving at 5 in the morning cos my sleep patterns are fucking up and
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« Reply #1524 on: May 11, 2012, 10:29:36 AM » |
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I can't really offer hugs because the onus is on you when you're drunk and do silly things. I've also been in a situation where my best friend was going out with my ex (that I had just broken up with) behind my back, so I'm pretty short fused when it comes to anything involving a friends girlfriend or ex. I guess I can say that it sucks that you're in that situation and hopefully the girl stops using you as a shoulder to cry on since you're not comfortable with it, but that's about as far as I can go there. Good luck! 
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« Reply #1525 on: May 11, 2012, 03:27:40 PM » |
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why even post that? omg you were once jealous about a girl you didn't like anymore???/
also, onus, not "ownness." if that was on purpose you're a horrible person.
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« Reply #1526 on: May 11, 2012, 03:39:13 PM » |
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Thanks for the fix on the typo, I couldn't figure out for the life of me what was wrong with it, but yeah, you got it. To clarify, I did still like the girl, perhaps saying "(I had just broken up with)" was too vague, she had broken up with me actually. Finally, it's relevant because Gribbin's friend could be the same way. I was pretty angry about it when my friend came out and told me.
EDIT: Whoops, mistook you for Connor, sorry Gribs.
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« Reply #1527 on: May 18, 2012, 07:59:21 PM » |
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Just got off a 3 hour phone call with this girl. I am jokingly insulted and informed about several people she wants to sleep with and her ex-boyfriends (my friend) sexual prerferences. I am reluctant to use phrases like 'friend zone' because theres a subtle mysoginy to the assumption that women owe me something for my kindness but it seems clear to me thay she knows how i feel and theres nothing to come of this but angst.
Btw friend also recently began dating girl who tried to date me so yeah. Feel shitty and impotent atm but starting to level out and get over this girl -_- no thanks to anyone here but i dont feel like jumping off a bridge anymore i guess...
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« Reply #1528 on: May 23, 2012, 05:43:52 PM » |
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So I've been having a hard time with everything lately.
I'm working a job where I put in 9 hours of time, get paid 6 dollars an hour for 7 hours a day. the work is physically exhausting (on top of being something that I don't give a rat's ass about) and I don't want to do anything but sleep during my downtime. Regardless, I've been looking for other work, trying to find a place to live (more on that later), and helping my sister and fiance with day-to-day type stuff.
I've had a lot of projects put on hold for money/time reasons. I can barely afford to feed myself. My fiance has been cooking for me, she cooks ... like. amazing. so that's awesome.
I've been "homeless" for the past week (Mostly due to my own procrastination, sucks when I don't have anyone to blame but myself), I finally found a place I could afford and was going to move in today...
Got a text this morning:
"I lost your #. Moving in right now won't work. I'm sorry."
effffffff.... I called the guy. I text the guy. He won't answer. Now I know the benefits of a lease.
Meanwhile, I'm really depressed. I mean really. I don't know what I'm living for. I just hope things get better and that's the only thing that keeps me going.
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